Anticholinergics. These medications can soothe excess bladder and strains and can be helpful for anxiety. Examples include oxybutynin (Ditropan XL), tolterodine (Detrol), darifenacin (Enablex), fesoterodine (Toviaz), solifenacin (Vesicare) and trospium chloride. What’s the best medicine for bladder control? Is Cranberry ...